Her Cultivation Diary

Chapter 2172: Chapter 1850: What Does It Mean to Be Dignified? (Part 2)

He tackles as much work as he can, and when he can’t manage it anymore, it’s time for further education.

By then, he’ll have saved up enough for tuition and living expenses, and he’ll focus on returning to school, obtaining the necessary diplomas, and improving his skills in a condensed time frame.

Boss Song promised him that once he gets the required certifications, his previous job will still be available.

Though the assistant position might not wait for him indefinitely, with his work experience, transitioning to another role wouldn’t be daunting.

"So," Aunt Zhang Hong specifically highlighted him, with the real intention of asking the group of employed ladies:

"What should she look out for when choosing a partner in the future?"

The girls’ eyes shone brightly.

What an ambitious plan! This girl doesn’t need to be judged by appearances; her personality is evidently resilient. If an employer makes such a promise to her, she must be meticulous and attentive.

And feeling for her sister, she has no family burdens, is independent and self-reliant...

Oh dear!

Many girls express regret: If they were men, they’d want such a partner too! Why worry about supporting college for two years? She’s genuinely admirable!

So, some girl spoke up:

"Aunt, just remind her, she’s so outstanding, she shouldn’t easily compromise herself."

"Yes, exactly! She shouldn’t choose a very poor family or one with many burdens—the more responsible, independent, and self-reliant she is, the easier it is to endure hardships in such families."

"Also, always pay attention to the man’s family. If his parents don’t approve of her, don’t force it; don’t do anything they say!"

"Aunt, you shouldn’t worry too much; she’s progressive, and once she graduates and takes on a new job, her income level may be dramatically different from now, and her options might expand."

Such a capable girl might even sit for public exams or secure a civil service post.

But back to the point—

"The wages at this farm in your village are quite high."

"Yes, yes!" Aunt Zhang Hong proudly said:

"Not only are the wages high, but they also include meals and lodging. Four meals a day taste great. If you look at my notes, if they don’t have other expenses, they can spend under 500 yuan a month."

This also has something to do with Song Tan’s real estate plans that haven’t seen light yet.

After all, for a house that costs six hundred thousand yuan in full payment, regular workers feel like it’s a distant goal to save up.

Yet a house in the county, with the deposit calculated, might only be under 100,000 yuan...

So with some effort and determination, it’s possible to save enough in a year! With this plan set in place, now the workers at the farm are really motivated!

Otherwise, why with slight persuasion, do people willingly join the matchmaking event? It’s really that there’s a promising vision for starting a family and settling down.

She flipped through a couple of pages: "Help me check out these two—are they sincerely seeking partners..."

Who are they?

Self-taught Sister and Gastric Bypass Brother!

Gastric Bypass Brother is most eager; he dreams of the married life and having a child.

Before, he didn’t dare to dream, because living in the big city pushed him like cattle and horses, leaving no energy for a girlfriend, let alone conditions to raise a child.

His mom encouraged him, saying a man shouldn’t overthink; how can’t a child be raised and nurtured?

Gastric Bypass Brother wants to laugh bitterly.

Yes, with current conditions, a child can be raised. But drinking formula versus rice porridge—isn’t the same!

When the child grows up, the family’s budget only allows for park visits, but then sees other kids going to amusement parks—leaving out competition, just when the child wants to go but the parents’ budget is tight, can they feel good?

He had a former colleague who owned a cat; when the cat was sick, they went for treatment, even a check-up brought heartache and dilemmas—being poor affects the will!

But now, things are different.

Anyway, not wanting to return home, working here really nourishes him, and there’s even talk of housing—

His savings can cover the deposit; there’s nowhere else to spend, he’s well-fed and sleeps well—

People, they follow their genes.

When survival is pursued, reproduction is put on hold.

But once survival is assured, reproductive instincts start to surge.

So, for the matchmaking event, he eagerly signed up, wanting to date seriously and have a committed relationship!

He’s now a free man—no overtime, no drinking dinners, no bosses to please!

And Self-taught Sister.

She doesn’t solely rely on men but, like Gastric Bypass Brother, now that life is better, and she is energetic and lives a healthy, regular life—

Feels just right for raising a child.

She’s hardworking, can endure hardship, and hasn’t suffered major illnesses like Gastric Bypass Brother, thus having more savings, providing stability.

However, alas, even within the Security Team, there are a few she finds appealing—the reason she finds several appealing is that in the city, her colleagues and friends are workhorses struggling to live.

Making it real tough to find self-disciplined, diligent, clean, and remarkably responsible people.

But disregard her work experience; her dating experience is lamentable. Upon considering deeply, since colleagues become involved directly, failing to find a connection comes with losses.

She also rather avoids awkward situations from workplace romances (even though the farm doesn’t care about these), so she’s planning to clearly list her requirements and see if anyone matches at the matchmaking event.

Since it’s a group activity, everyone is interacting with others, and regardless of successful connections, it doesn’t hinder future interactions.

And Aunt Zhang Hong is now meticulously taking out their profiles, clearly inquiring about both sides’ requirements.

Now letting the city girls have a look too, what aspects specifically should they consider when a unit finds a partner?

If they find someone appealing, how should they interact to maintain dignity?